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ON OCTOBER 4, 2022, A 90-YEAR-OLD WOMAN DIED IN HER SLEEP, IN HER OWN BED, ON LAND SHE OWNED IN HURRICANE MILLS, TENNESSEE — A FEW HUNDRED FEET FROM A CABIN SHE HAD BUILT AS A COPY OF THE ONE SHE WAS BORN IN. Doo had been gone twenty-six years by then. They had been married forty-eight. Of the six children, she had already buried two. Loretta Webb was born in Butcher Hollow, Kentucky, in 1932, one of eight. The walls of the cabin were papered with pages torn from a Sears catalog. She married a twenty-one-year-old veteran a month after meeting him. She was fifteen. She told it for fifty years as thirteen, and it took a wire-service reporter going through Kentucky state records in 2012 to correct her. She had four children before she was twenty. She was a logging-camp housewife in Custer, Washington, when her husband handed her a guitar. In 1960 she cut “I’m a Honky Tonk Girl” for a label nobody had heard of. Then she and Doo got in a car and drove the country, station to station, handing the record across the desk and asking the man behind it to please play her. Twelve years later, the men behind those desks were refusing. “Rated X.” “The Pill.” Pulled from playlists, banned outright in places. She kept turning them in anyway. The records sold regardless, because the women buying them had heard nobody say those things out loud before. In 1972 country music named her Entertainer of the Year. No woman had ever held it. The song that gave her a name was about her father, who worked the mines and did not live to see fifty-two. She wrote it eleven years after he died. She sang it for the next fifty, and said near the end that she’d have given anything for him to hear it once.